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CAN I WRITE ABOUT AGING NOW?

 

Can I write about aging now? I'm thirty

(well, okay, I'm twenty-nine, but

really, it's only months

till thirty hits, and I'd rather

have relinquished twenty-nine gamely,

early. So)

 

I'm thirty.

Can I write now about

how normal everything has gotten?

The way I've taken hobbies up?

My sad, entropic body?

The way my sense of

"Self" has been replaced with a sense

that I'm a mammal running through developmental stages, like:

 

Romantic Love (ten to twenty-two)

Addiction (twenty-five to twenty-eight)

Preoccupation with Career (that's now)

 

And I know what's waiting, too:

 

Death of Parents (around fifty)

First Disease (I will not speculate)

When I Grow Obsessed with What I have Not Done (I'd say at fifty, coinciding

with my parent's death)

 

I can't write anymore about youth; I think I'll start

on aging now.